i think he choosed not to have sense,cos from his comment you’d know he was expecting her to have said they’ve had sex once so he can come up with the nigerian girl are bad thing.I thought as much Berryli :Few weeks to my 25th birthday, last year,I ran into my Neighbour n we exchanged numbers, then the chatting began, we became friends and he offered to take me out on my birthday but It didn’t happen.fast forward to the lockdown, I would go visit him we would chat and he appreciated my company as he was alone.He eventually started to make moves, getting all touchy which got me a little surprised and uncomfortable since as friends that was improper, which got me thinking if he wants more than friendship.
He has a great career, intelligent and all but not my spec, and I’m not attracted to him.we are very different people, socially and even our views about life.I enjoy his company but that’s all there is.
as a result if I use to visit twice in a week, I reduced it to once in two weeks and eventually monthly, and reduced the chats just to not give him the wrong impression.
he stylishly refer to me in future as his wife.what do I do? is he starting to have feelings for me and how do I stylishly turn him down since he hasn’t asked me out or do i wait for him to do so? cos there are people whole just draw close and start dating without d while toasting stuff or is it just his flesh loosing control,which I doubt cos I try to be as decent as possible wen visiting him.do I just go with the flow since I’m currently not in a relationship? But won’t that be me deceiving him and myself cos I don’t like him in that way.or I over thinking the whole thing? Discuss with him.Let him know that you can NEVER date him.Each time he try to cross the boundary, remind him of his status, don’t just keep quiet cos to him silence means pls continue 2 Likes Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by nerdfrost ( m ): 2:21pm Just tell him u ain’t attracted to him sexually….u still see him as a good friendMeanwhile….Why not join pi…it is a new crypto currency about to enter the market….currently at over 8m users…still giving out free coins…experts say it’ll be worth 0.4-1$ when they start trade by next year….what do u have to lose…its free,for more info,check my signature Berryli :Few weeks to my 25th birthday, last year,I ran into my Neighbour n we exchanged numbers, then the chatting began, we became friends and he offered to take me out on my birthday but It didn’t happen.
fast forward to the lockdown, I would go visit him we would chat and he appreciated my company as he was alone.He eventually started to make moves, getting all touchy which got me a little surprised and uncomfortable since as friends that was improper, which got me thinking if he wants more than friendship.He has a great career, intelligent and all but not my spec, and I’m not attracted to him.we are very different people, socially and even our views about life.I enjoy his company but that’s all there is.as a result if I use to visit twice in a week, I reduced it to once in two weeks and eventually monthly, and reduced the chats just to not give him the wrong impression.he stylishly refer to me in future as his wife.
what do I do? is he starting to have feelings for me and how do I stylishly turn him down since he hasn’t asked me out or do i wait for him to do so? cos there are people whole just draw close and start dating without d while toasting stuff or is it just his flesh loosing control,which I doubt cos I try to be as decent as possible wen visiting him.do I just go with the flow since I’m currently not in a relationship? But won’t that be me deceiving him and myself cos I don’t like him in that way.or I over thinking the whole thing? Reduce all chat and visit with communications with him Men have different views about relationship which is quite different from women 2 Likes Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by PureGoldh ( m ): 6:51pm Hmm…just relax….No rush things….permit me to say that Flesh is trying to take charge in dx matter but keep it on a low.As adults…you two can talk things over….if you don’t like him…just tell him openly that you can’t build any relationship with him.A girl once told me that she enjoys my company but she can’t date me…I asked her why and she said she just can’t…That she prefers us being**Besties** I said okay…since then ….we kept it on a low.As a gentleman,I really don’t have any issue with a lady telling me her mind…I don’t force things Just do what’s on your mind 1 Like
Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by MrPresh2020 : 6:51pm Next time you have a talk with him ask him about his future.
Where do you see yourself in 3 years or 5 years? What’s your life purpose? If he mentions your name or possibility of having a relationship with you then make it known to him you’re not ready yet for a relationship.And stop giving him green lights Re: How Do I Turn Him Down And Not Hurt Him? by Nawaaoh : 6:52pm VIDEO: See how JAMB lesson teacher was assaulting one of his female students in LagosShould a JAMB lesson teacher flog his students? Lesson na by force? Or, was this guy looking for something else?? Watch the video through the link and share your thoughts.